<p>By Deana Schroeder</p>
<p>I’ve been there. Not Todd Akin.  Not Richard Mourdock.  And certainly not their critics who sanctimoniously imagine that they know what pregnant sexual assault victims really want and need.</p>
<p>As my story shows, all too often, our self-appointed champions do more harm than good.</p>
<p>I was 17, drugged and raped. When I learned I was pregnant, my family, counselors, and doctors took control.</p>
<p>They intended the best. They wanted to help me. And even though there are literally no studies showing any benefit from abortion, they had total confidence in the social myth that abortion is the best option, even the <em>only</em> option, in cases of sexual assault. <span class="post-teaser-more">&nbsp;<a href="http://heartsunitedforlife.com/?p=1536" title="Permanent Link: My Rape Pregnancy and My Furor Over Social Myths" rel="bookmark">Read more...</a> <i>(645 words, estimated 2:35  mins reading time)</i></span></p>

<div class="post-teaser-block">This is a preview of <q>My Rape Pregnancy and My Furor Over Social Myths</q>. <a href="http://heartsunitedforlife.com/?p=1536" title="Permanent Link: My Rape Pregnancy and My Furor Over Social Myths" rel="bookmark">Read the full post (645 words, estimated 2:35  mins reading time)</a></div>{"id":1536,"date":"2013-03-25T06:15:51","date_gmt":"2013-03-25T10:15:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsunitedforlife.com\/?p=1536"},"modified":"2013-08-15T18:23:10","modified_gmt":"2013-08-15T22:23:10","slug":"my-rape-pregnancy-and-my-furor-over-social-myths","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/heartsunitedforlife.com\/?p=1536","title":{"rendered":"My Rape Pregnancy and My Furor Over Social Myths"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Deana\u00a0Schroeder<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been there. 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