<p>by <i>Brian Fisher</i></p>
<p>A dear friend of mine recently confessed to me that he was the father of one living daughter and four deceased children.  The four were aborted, three with his consent and one without.  My friend said the pain of those deaths is something he copes with on a daily basis.  “The guilt and pain can be overwhelming,” he said.</p>
<p>Another friend still can’t hold back tears, even after 20 years, when he shares that he took his then-girlfriend to Planned Parenthood to erase the “mistake” they made a few months before their wedding.   Now married for two decades and the parent of four other beautiful children, he recounts how his marriage was difficult and tumultuous for years until they sought counseling.  The root of their conflict and strife?  The abortion. <span class="post-teaser-more">&nbsp;<a href="http://heartsunitedforlife.com/?p=1981" title="Permanent Link: Abortion and fatherhood &#8212; a man&#8217;s take" rel="bookmark">Read more...</a> <i>(778 words, 1 image, estimated 3:07  mins reading time)</i></span></p>

<div class="post-teaser-block">This is a preview of <q>Abortion and fatherhood &#8212; a man&#8217;s take</q>. <a href="http://heartsunitedforlife.com/?p=1981" title="Permanent Link: Abortion and fatherhood &#8212; a man&#8217;s take" rel="bookmark">Read the full post (778 words, 1 image, estimated 3:07  mins reading time)</a></div>{"id":1981,"date":"2013-06-15T18:39:35","date_gmt":"2013-06-15T22:39:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsunitedforlife.com\/?p=1981"},"modified":"2013-08-15T20:50:34","modified_gmt":"2013-08-16T00:50:34","slug":"abortion-and-fatherhood-a-mans-take","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/heartsunitedforlife.com\/?p=1981","title":{"rendered":"Abortion and fatherhood &#8212; a man&#8217;s take"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>by <i>Brian Fisher<\/i><\/p>\n<p>A dear friend of mine recently confessed to me that he was the father of one living daughter and four deceased children.\u00a0 The four were aborted, three with his consent and one without.\u00a0 My friend said the pain of those deaths is something he copes with on a daily basis.\u00a0 \u201cThe guilt and pain can be overwhelming,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Another friend still can\u2019t hold back tears, even after 20 years, when he shares that he took his then-girlfriend to Planned Parenthood to erase the \u201cmistake\u201d they made a few months before their wedding.\u00a0\u00a0 Now married for two decades and the parent of four other beautiful children, he recounts how his marriage was difficult and tumultuous for years until they sought counseling.\u00a0 The root of their conflict and strife?\u00a0 The abortion. <span class=\"post-teaser-more\">&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/heartsunitedforlife.com\/?p=1981\" title=\"Permanent Link: Abortion and fatherhood &#8212; 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