<p>by<em> Kristen Hatten</em></p>
<p>“I’m still in the pro-life closet, and I don’t know how to come out!”</p>
<p>I have been told this a surprising number of times, but it never fails to stir my sympathy. I remember coming out.</p>
<p>It’s difficult now to describe the feeling I had then, in the winter of 2006, but I knew in my gut that a lot of things were about to change. As a recent convert, it had never occurred to me how much belief in abortion “rights” was part and parcel with the lifestyle I was leading then. I was in my twenties; I was an actor and writer, a self-described liberal feminist, and most of my friends were pot-smoking punk rockers, artists of various stripes, comics and entertainers, burgeoning intellectuals, and the like. I had a gut feeling my friends and fellows would have a hard time accepting this change of heart. <span class="post-teaser-more">&nbsp;<a href="http://heartsunitedforlife.com/?p=2424" title="Permanent Link: Scared to Say You’re Pro-Life? Here’s How to “Come Out” of the Closet" rel="bookmark">Read more...</a> <i>(1138 words, estimated 4:33  mins reading time)</i></span></p>

<div class="post-teaser-block">This is a preview of <q>Scared to Say You’re Pro-Life? Here’s How to “Come Out” of the Closet</q>. <a href="http://heartsunitedforlife.com/?p=2424" title="Permanent Link: Scared to Say You’re Pro-Life? Here’s How to “Come Out” of the Closet" rel="bookmark">Read the full post (1138 words, estimated 4:33  mins reading time)</a></div>{"id":2424,"date":"2013-08-16T09:17:32","date_gmt":"2013-08-16T13:17:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsunitedforlife.com\/?p=2424"},"modified":"2013-08-16T09:17:32","modified_gmt":"2013-08-16T13:17:32","slug":"scared-to-say-youre-pro-life-heres-how-to-come-out-of-the-closet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/heartsunitedforlife.com\/?p=2424","title":{"rendered":"Scared to Say You\u2019re Pro-Life? 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I had a gut feeling my friends and fellows would have a hard time accepting this change of heart. <span class=\"post-teaser-more\">&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/heartsunitedforlife.com\/?p=2424\" title=\"Permanent Link: Scared to Say You\u2019re Pro-Life? Here\u2019s How to \u201cCome Out\u201d of the Closet\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read more...<\/a> <i>(1138 words, estimated 4:33  mins reading time)<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n\n<div class=\"post-teaser-block\">This is a preview of <q>Scared to Say You\u2019re Pro-Life? Here\u2019s How to \u201cCome Out\u201d of the Closet<\/q>. <a href=\"http:\/\/heartsunitedforlife.com\/?p=2424\" title=\"Permanent Link: Scared to Say You\u2019re Pro-Life? 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